March Newsletter

Board Update

I once heard from someone that if the only thing you did today was breathe, that’s okay.  I love that saying and while I don’t know where it’s from, the advice sticks with me.  Sometimes all I need is a little breathing room. Making the time to find places where I can walk without distractions and take in the beauty around me. I like to let my dog lead me to places that I might not otherwise discover.

I’m lucky to have stumbled upon the Healing Center five years ago and to be part of such a special place. Last year we had 360+ people attend our groups, 70 of those being children between the ages of 3 to 18. We also had 190 new people find the Healing Center. We are 6 months into rebuilding the operations and finances of the organization and I’m pleased to report we have made huge progress. There is always more to do, but the Board will begin to update our long-term plans in the coming months. We are actively recruiting and will have new Board members this Spring and we have re-engaged the Advisory Board.  We’ve been busy, and I want to give you some updates.

  • I want to thank all of you who have donated to our GoFundMe campaign for our housing costs. We have 9 days left as we try to raise $48,000. If you haven’t shared the campaign yet within your network, please do so today or re-share an update on our progress.
  • We could not be successful without the tremendous support of our volunteers. Please see the article in this newsletter highlighting their great work.  We recently trained 12 awesome new volunteer group facilitators in January and we’ll be holding a second training later this year. Jeanne, Scott, and Joe (our new Youth Therapist) did a fantastic job running the training!
  • We recently received a grant from the Safe Crossings Foundation to support our children’s programs. We continue to see a strong need for childhood grief support. The 70 kids we saw in group last year was a 40% increase from 2016 and we are on pace to see continued growth, with almost 30 kids attending in January alone. We are grateful for the support from Safe Crossings Foundation as they help fund the growth of our children’s programs.
  • Spring Luncheon – please save the date for our Spring luncheon on May 3rd from 12-1:30pm at the Westin hotel in downtown Seattle. Formal invites will be sent in April.

The last item I want to address is a significant change for the Healing Center. As you’ve heard or read before, we are in the process of rebuilding the organization and ensuring our operations and finances match our program excellence. I created a task force of current and former group participants late last year to explore how we fund our groups. The Healing Center’s funding model has not changed for 18 years and it is no longer sustainable as our groups grow.

Since its founding, we have asked that those attending group drop $20 in a bowl. The donations we collect are not enough to cover current and future costs for group (our therapists time and a portion of the housing costs).  With the recommendations from the task force, we are making a shift in March to charge for group because we want to do our best to ensure that our groups can be funded and become self-sustaining.  We will not turn anyone away if they do not have the ability to pay as we have reduced rates and scholarships. You can find more information about this change on our website.

Be on the lookout this Spring for our first ever (at least in a very long while) Healing Center satisfaction survey.  We want to hear from you on what is working and what we can improve upon. You can always reach the Board with feedback or suggestions.

Be well,

Aaron Reich
Interim Board President

Volunteer Highlight: Kate Ramstedt

What drew you to working with the Healing Center?

My father died of cancer when I was 7 and my brother was 5. We lived in a small community in rural Idaho at the time and there weren’t any resources like The Healing Center and we didn’t know any other kids who could relate to our experience. Looking back I can only imagine the difference a place like THC would have made for us. I really appreciate how The Healing Center makes grief a less isolating and lonely experience.

How long have you volunteered with the Healing Center?

I started volunteering in 2013. I took time off a couple years ago to manage some health issues but have recently started back up.

What kind of volunteer work do you currently do for us?

I typically write thank you letters to THC donors. In the past I have also helped tidy up the art and play rooms upstairs.  I’ve also enjoyed helping out at fundraising events and the May Day walks.

Is there anything else we should know about you? Any interesting hobbies or facts?

I have a counseling private practice and often work with adults who lost a parent as a young child.  I married a travel writer last year and we love exploring new places. When we aren’t traveling, we’re working on fixing up our 114 year old house.

Facilitator Training

We hosted a facilitator training last month. This 15 hour training is required for anyone who is interested in facilitating groups at the Healing Center. Over the course of 3 days, 12 potential volunteers received training on our grief support model. Topics included how to lead balanced, productive group sessions, the difference between the group support model and individual counseling and how to practice self-care as a facilitator.

We are excited to welcome new facilitators into our community!

NW Conference on Childhood Grief

Several members of the Healing Center staff attended the NW conference on Childhood Grief on March 2nd. This is the forth year that the Safe Crossings Foundation has hosted this event. The topic of this year’s symposium was Connecting Children to Support: Addressing Barriers to Service. The conference was a chance for several grief support organizations in the Puget sound area to gather and discuss how we can better serve our community.

A big thank you to the Safe Crossings Foundation for organizing this event!

You can learn more about the conference and the other organizations that attended here.

New York Life Article: Data on Grieving Children

The New York Life Foundation recently released survey data analyzing the effect of the loss of a parent on a child. They found that 57 percent of Millennials and Gen Xers who had lost a parent growing up felt that support tapered off within a mere three months of the loss, with 20 percent saying that support declined after the first week and an additional 21 percent saying after the first month.

Although this survey only analyzed the loss of a parent in childhood, we know that this tapering off of support happens after the death of any loved one, at any age. This is why the Healing Center’s model of continued support is so important. We recognize that grief is an ongoing process and having a community of people who understand this process is vital to life after death.

You can read the entire New York Life article here.

December Newsletter

Board Update

This time of year, as we shift into winter, the Board takes time for reflection and give thanks.  We could not be more grateful to you, our community, who provide support in so many ways.  We have had a busy summer and fall as we continue to navigate leadership changes and execute a plan the Board put in place in June to strengthen the organization.  We have made great progress in the last six months to increase our business acumen and fundraising, but we aren’t where we need to be financially. When an organization has been running from event to event for funding like the Healing Center has, it takes a while to shift out of that grind and broaden to other funding sources to become sustainable.  I like looking to history as a guide and to ensure we stay true to our mission and that we keep growing and learning.  I looked through our newsletter archives and found the winter newsletter from 2008.  Here is a snippet from our founder, Kath McCormack:

“Two years ago, we were just settling into our new home in the Ravenna district of Seattle. We were so thrilled to finally have a central location; a place where all our programs could be under one roof… It is amazing how far we have come in the last two years. About two hundred people a month come through our doors to receive comfort, support and the companionship of others who are trying to navigate the stormy sea of grief. We really are a community; a safe harbor. I would have given anything to have a place like this when my family and I were looking for support.”

Since January 2017, we have had over 350 group participants, almost every night of the week.  That’s over 220 adults, 60 young adults, and 70 kids, many who come week to week for support.

I want to thank all of you who have helped to make this safe place possible: our donors, our volunteers, our dedicated staff and interns.  Most of all I want to thank those of you who are grieving and who have trusted us to help ease your load. You are the reason we are here.

If you can this holiday season, please think about The Healing Center and the support you received. Please make a donation to give the gift of comfort, hope and healing to an adult or children grieving the death of a loved one.

A client shared many years ago: “Thank you [Healing Center] for wrapping your arms around us and standing quietly by our sides as we travel through this very unpredictable and painful journey of grief. The calmness and understanding that you show renews my faith, hope and trust that as I continue this journey I am the only one that can design my life as I need it to be. Thank you for this wonderful place of healing and forever friends!”

On behalf of the Board and Staff, have Happy Holiday and Happy New Year!

Aaron Reich
Interim Board President

Holiday Office Closures

The Healing Center office will be closed from December 22nd through January 2nd for the holidays. All groups during this time will be cancelled. Please refer to our Google calendar for a more detailed view on the cancellations.

Click here to access the google calendar. 

Please feel free to reach out to the office with any questions or concerns. If you have an emergency during this time, call 911 or the 24 hour crisis line at 206-461-3222.

Client Highlight

Jill Deckman Cooper

At Oktoberfest this year, Jill Deckman Cooper shared her story about the The Healing Center:

“At first it was a safe haven to grieve our loss, then it became a place where powerful connections were formed, after that it became a mirror that reflected how far we’ve come, and now it is like an old friend that I can call on whenever we are in need. I’m forever grateful for The Healing Center for helping us through the most difficult time in our lives.”

~Jill D. Cooper, widow of John H. Cooper who died on May 14, 2014 and mom of Dylan and Lila Cooper


Volunteer Highlight

Julie Plaut Warwick

Julie has been volunteering with the Healing Center since Winter 2013.  In one of her first experiences with the Healing Center, she participated in the May Walk, which that year coincided with World Laughter Day.  Julie still remembers how amazing it was to see people who were reflective and thinking about their loved ones who had died break into laughter one by one.  The following month, Julie became certified as a laughter yoga leader and began to incorporate it into programs at the Healing Center.

Julie interned at the Healing Center from 2013-2014 and helped facilitate all children’s’ groups.  In September of 2014 she graduated with a degree in Counseling from Antioch and traveled to India to get certified as a laughter yoga teacher by Madan Kataria, the founder of Laughter yoga.  She has been a facilitator for the Littles Group and Healing Club 1-2-3 ever since.

Along with using her skills as a therapist, Julie is now traveling around the world as an inspirational speaker who provides keynote speeches, training and workshops. You can visit her webpage (  for a listing of her workshops and to find out more about laughter yoga.

Although we miss Julie during her travels, we are grateful for her many years of service with The Healing Center.

Holiday Party

Our annual holiday party and potluck was held on December 5th. The holidays can be a difficult time after the death of the loved one. This event was a chance for the Healing Center community to get together and celebrate the holidays in a safe and supportive environment. In addition to a delicious potluck, the children were paid a visit from Santa and received many gifts.

A big thank you to Toy’s for Kids, Rick Rizzs and Resa Moore for spreading holiday magic and providing toys for the children in our programs. The holidays can be stressful and overwhelming, but seeing the gratitude and excitement in the kids faces started off the holiday season with a ray of positive light.


Surviving the Holidays

The holidays can be a stressful time when you have experience the death of a loved one. The article Finding Light in the Darkness: Grieving Through The Holidays can hopefully give some insight on how to take care of yourself and honor your loved one during this time of year.

Click here to access the article.

October Newsletter

From the Board of Directors

Each Fall I’m reminded of the power of The Healing Center.  My mom passed away 5 years ago and I was lucky enough to find The Healing Center and our Young Adult group.  For the previous two years, I attended the Ceremony of Remembrance and while difficult, it was amazing to sit there and listen to our clients share stories about their loved ones.  Last year after telling a story about my mom, a woman came up and thanked for me sharing.  Her husband had passed recently and she had a son about my age.  Until I told my story, she hadn’t thought about the perspective of her son and the support he may want or need.  That is the power of The Healing Center, allowing us to come together as a community and heal.

It’s been a busy few months at The Healing Center as we’ve been going through some transition.  We had a great Oktoberfest event and our programs are continuing with children’s groups starting this month.  We still have a ton more work to do, but we could not do it without the help of our phenomenal staff and volunteers.  We’ll be sharing more of our plan for the remainder of our fiscal year in a future newsletter, which you will begin receiving quarterly.

As we move into the holiday season, we know this is a hard time for many.  We are here for any support that you need.  Take care of yourselves and if you haven’t stopped by The Healing Center in a while, drop by Monday thru Thursday as we have some new staff and they’d love to meet you.

Best wishes,

Aaron Reich, Interim Board President

Children’s Groups Schedule 

Children’s groups will be starting again this month!

  • Littles: Every 1st and 3rd Wednesday
  • Healing Club 1-2-3: Every 2nd and 4th Wednesday
  • Healing Club 4-5-6: Every 1st and 3rd Tuesday
  • Teen Group: Every 2nd and 4th Tuesday

All of our children’s groups are from 4-5:30pm

For more information about the schedule for all of our groups, please visit our google calendar.

Welcome Our New Staff Members

We are happy to welcome three new staff members to our team.

Alicia Barry

Operations Manager

A native New Yorker, Alicia fell in love with nonprofits when she was only a teenager. Inspired by a year of volunteering at the ASPCA, Alicia quickly developed a deep passion for charitable work.

Before joining The Healing Center, Alicia worked as the Senior Manager, Operations and Parent Education and Support Services at Ramapo for Children. Through direct service youth programs and highly regarded training programs for adults, Ramapo works on behalf of children who face obstacles to learning, including children with special needs, enabling them to succeed in the classroom, at home, and in life.

Alicia graduated with honors from the State University of New York Oswego with a Bachelor of Arts in Human Communication and a minor in Art History.

In her spare time, Alicia enjoys reading, practicing yoga, and cooking for her friends and family.

Kayla Erickson

Administrative Assistant

Kayla graduated from Western Washington University with a BA in Human Services. During her time at Western, she interned with the YWCA of Bellingham and with the independent living skills program at Youthnet, which helps youth transition out of foster care. She has also worked as a case aide at Secret Harbor,  where she provided recreation and mentorship for foster youth. Kayla is excited to join such a welcoming and supportive community at the Healing Center.

Joe Fuentes

Youth Therapist 

Joe relocated to the State of Washington in March of 2017.  In addition to his work at the Healing Center, Joe is a Bilingual Mental Health Therapist, providing services for unaccompanied minors seeking asylum in the United States. Much of his experience has been working with children, teenagers and families. Joe is a registered Marriage and Family Therapist Associate in the State of Washington and California.  Joe tries incorporate mindfulness and body work in his work and is hoping there might be an opportunity for to practice these skills at the Healing Center. In his spare time he enjoy running, hiking, writing music, watching baseball, and being in nature.

Our Latest Events

Oktoberfest 2017









Thank you to all of those who attended our annual Oktoberfest event held on September 15th at Block 41.  It was a fun evening and grossed almost $115,000 to directly maintain and support our programs.  We moved into a new space this year at Block 41 and the combination of the larger space and outdoor area allowed for some fun wine toss games before the live auction started.

Ceremony of Remembrance

Our annual Ceremony of Remembrance took place from 2-4pm on October 7th at the Northgate Community Center. This is a moving ceremony that happens once a year and is a chance to honor  loved ones in a beautiful setting with other friends from The Healing Center. We had almost 50 clients attend who were gracious enough to share photos, items and stories to help commemorate the life and love that they shared with their person.



Upcoming Events

Holiday Party

Our annual holiday party will take place on December 5 and includes a visit from Santa and gifts for the kids.  We will be sending a save-the-date shortly.

Helping Children Move Through the Grief Process

Since our children’s groups are starting again, we thought it may be appropriate to share an article about helping children cope with grief. This article, titled Helping Children Cope With Loss, Death, and Grief, is a good resource for helping children move through grief in a developmentally appropriate way.

Youth Therapist Job Opening

Update October 9, 2017 — this position has been filled.  Thank you to all candidates that had applied.


Job Position:

Youth Therapist with Supervision


$26-$30 / hour (DOE)

Part-time Position (16-20 hours week)

To apply: Please email your resume and cover letter to

Job Description:

The Youth Therapist is responsible for overseeing all children’s programs and groups held at the Healing Center.  The Healing Center holds groups for kids in pre-school through high school.  This role is initially part-time and has the potential to turn into a full-time position.  This is an outstanding opportunity to manage our existing youth programs and help shape the future of providing grief support to kids across the Seattle area.  The Youth Therapist will work with the rest of the staff at the Healing Center and interact with our other therapists and volunteers.

Duties and Responsibilities

Program Operations (approx. 50% of role)

  • Create all curriculum for all children’s groups
  • Create all curriculum for all parent groups
  • Work with administrative assistant to maintain upkeep of attic space, including cleaning and stocking of supplies for art activities, etc.
  • Coordinate planning and executing children’s program events including Holiday party, Summer BBQ, May Walk, etc.
    • Manage and oversee Healing Center Summer Camp
    • Recruit group members to camp
    • Arrange schedules and outings for each day of camp
    • Write curriculum for camp activities
    • Recruit volunteers for camp each day
    • Manage overall camp as it occurs
    • Communicate with families/caregivers/guardians about logistics of camp
  • Participate in broader Healing Center program activities including Ceremony of Remembrance, Oktoberfest, Annual Luncheon, etc.
  • Speak to media about issues of children’s grief as needed
  • Provide outreach to schools and other organizations in need of response to a grief event in the community as needed
  • Other duties as needed

Clinical (approx. 30% of role)

  • Conduct briefing meetings before each group
  • Conduct debriefing meetings after each group
  • Remain on site (and in group if needed) to respond to clinical emergencies and volunteer/group member concerns
  • Maintain consistent contact with group member guardians/caregivers as needed
  • Assess for mental health and behavioral concerns among group members and take appropriate clinical action as needed
  • Provide information to family/guardians/caregivers about group curriculum and suggestions for discussion questions with group members
  • Participate in staff and clinical staff meetings
  • Occasional sick/vacation coverage for adult group facilitators

Volunteers (approx. 20% of role)

  • Recruit volunteers for children’s programs
  • Interview and screen each volunteer candidate
  • Provide 3 day intensive training 2x/year to incoming volunteers
  • Provide ongoing support and guidance to all volunteers
  • Provide clinical supervision to intern and post-graduate volunteers
  • Comply with various graduate program requirements for interns
  • Communicate with various graduate programs regularly for interns
  • Schedule all volunteers in children’s groups
  • Promote volunteer optimism via volunteer kick-off meetings, social opportunities, and annual Volunteer Appreciation Event


  • Master’s Degree in Social Work, Counseling, Psychology, or other related field
  • Clinical Supervisor approved for Washington State, or ability to become approved within 6 months of employment
  • Licensure, or ability to gain licensure within 6 months of employment
  • Minimum of two post-graduate years working with children and families in a clinical setting
  • Experience with program coordination and program development desired
  • One-year experience in training, recruiting, and managing volunteers
  • Ability to provide presentations in the community
  • Understanding of and dedication to the mission of the Healing Center
  • Experience with clinical interventions around behavior and mental health concerns in children
  • Two years post-graduate experience facilitating psycho-social/support groups, ideally with children or families
  • Experience with and working knowledge of grief and loss in children across the developmental span
  • Must possess sound judgment; prioritization and follow-through skills; attention to details; dependability; tact; and ability to maintain confidential information.
  • Demonstrated ability to work within a growing non-profit environment
  • Must be able to cope with family/caregiver emotional stress, cultural diversity and be non-judgmental of individual life-styles.

About the Healing Center:

The Healing Center offers a safe, loving place that honors grief, helping you to move through it and heal. We serve 400+ adults, young adults, teens and children who have experienced the death of a spouse/partner, parent, sibling, relative or friend.

  • We provide support and guidance on the grieving and healing process.
  • We offer individual support, as well as programs and activities where you can benefit from the community of people served by The Healing Center.
  • We provide an environment – supported by our community and staff – where you decide when to come, how to grieve, or how long or how often you decide to receive services.

The Healing Center’s goal is to support children, adults, and families as they come to terms with the death of a loved one. We offer a variety of services and a community of people. This is a place where bereaved people, adults, and children alike can stop for a little while, rest, be comforted, meet others who understand, and begin to move through their grief so that, ultimately, they can begin to make peace with death and rebuild their lives. The long-term goal is that each person will come to a place of peace and will find new meaning as they reinvest in life. We are a community of people who support each other.

Oktoberfest 2017

A big thank you to everyone that attended our Oktoberfest event last night! Your support and generosity helps us to provide a community for grieving individuals and families. We look forward the opportunity to serve more individuals as well as continuing to provide our services for those already a part of The Healing Center community. Thanks again for your overwhelming generosity!

Healing Center Update

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May 25, 2017                                                             


Jen McCormick, Clinical Director for The Healing Center Seattle, will be leaving the organization during the 2017 Summer, after four years where she helped bring community-wide awareness and provided support for families in grief.

Jen has had a direct hand in helping over 400 individuals and families navigate their grief journey, bringing strength and guidance to those in the greater Seattle area.  Through her work leading kids’ groups at The Healing Center and outreach in the community at local schools, Jen has made The Healing Center a safe, comfortable environment for those in need.  She has had direct responsibility for growing the number of groups and programs and for establishing The Healing Center as a gathering place. “The main philosophy of the center idea is to get people in a room together that understand what they are all going through,” Jen says. “Outside of here, they may not be able to talk about it.”

The Healing Center is incredibly grateful for her tremendous support and we know our programs and families are stronger because of her leadership.  The Healing Center is excited for Jen’s next chapter as she will continue to work within the community with children in grief and trauma as well as starting her own private practice.

The Board and Executive Director are working closely with Jen during the transition to hire and train a new Clinical Director, so it will be seamless for all our individuals and families.  Please do not hesitate to contact us ( with comments or concerns.

About The Healing Center

The Healing Center offers a safe, loving place that honors grief, helping individuals and families to move through it and heal. They serve adults, young adults, and children who have experienced the premature death of a spouse/partner, parent, or sibling.  The Healing Center provides an environment – supported by their community and staff – where individuals and families decide when to come, how to grieve, or how long or how often to receive services.

Grief and the Changing Seasons

With Spring just around the corner, Jen McCormick talked with Q13 Fox about how the changing seasons impacts grief. As the days get longer and the sun comes out it can be challenging for people who are grieving to see those around them feel better, more energized, and active. Jen also emphasizes that with each new season brings new memories of the person who died. Entering a season that usually brought special activities with the person who died and realizing that person is gone and you can’t do those things can bring intense emotions.

To watch the video and learn more about the ways grief impacts us, click here.

Northwest Conference on Childhood Grief

Safe Crossings Foundation is proud to present the 2017 Northwest Conference on Childhood Grief. We hope you will join us for this one-day symposium of deep learning, sharing of best practices, and networking with colleagues.

The cost to attend is $125, and we have a limited number of student tickets available at $100 each.

Friday, February 24th, 2017

7:30am – 8:00am     Registration and continental breakfast
8:00am – 5:15pm     Symposium programs (including lunch)
5:15pm – 6:30pm     Networking reception

Pacific Tower
1200 12th Avenue South
Seattle, WA  98144

For more information and to register click here.